Narcissistic Abuse and Codependency
by Lisa A. Romano
Narcissistic Abuse hurts like NO OTHER pain!
Why?
Because narcissists KNOW they have to gain access to your HEART in order to cripple you from the INSIDE OUT!
Why do they do this?
Narcissists KNOW they must love-bomb you to soften you up--so you drop your guard--so you unzip your heart space--so they can crawl into your wounds--so they can set up a command station--right there inside your most sacred space.
Why do they do this?
Narcissists do this because they know they need a MOLE! They know that if they are NOT inside of your mind, your heart, and your soul--they will have less of a chance to CONTROL you.
Does the COLD VIRUS harm you if it is sitting on your coffee table?
NO!
BUT--the cold virus DOES harm you once it finds its way into your system--when it ENTERS you--it can harm you.
Narcissists MUST enter into your energetic and psychic body--and they do this through MANIPULATION.
Why does their love-bombing work?
We fall for their love-bombing because many of us have been so DAMN wounded and STARVED to feel seen--that when a FREAKING NARCISSIST comes along and drops a flattering comment--WE FLIPPING MELT--like BUTTER in a HOT pan!
How do we NARC PROOF ourselves?
By COMMITTING to HEALING the wounds that cause us to feel spiritually starved for love!
DEAR ONE--people who tell you--what you want to hear--do NOT have your best interests at heart!
Don't fall for the B/S, whether you are a man or a woman--know that NARCISSISTS come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religious affiliations, and even spiritual backgrounds.
IF YOU CRAVE LOVE from the outside--DEAR ONE--it is time to HEAL on the INSIDE!
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